Monthly Archives: November 2012

The heart chakra

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I just wanted to share the following response I received to my earlier post, ‘Entering the heart space’ :

Hi Alison

Thanks for your blog post on heart chakra meditation and for publishing
this quote:

    ‘The little space within the heart is as great as this vast
universe’

    ~Chandogya Upanishad

A I practise a bit of yoga and meditation and recently my local buddhist
centre gave me a set of keys so I could use their meditation room before
work in the mornings. It’s a lovely big room with a shrine with about 15
buddhas. It’s a joy to sit there alone.

On wednesday moring I did a heart chakra meditation and when I opened my
eyes I realized that the space in my heart and the room I was now sitting
in were the same space and the thing that separated them was just my paper
thin sense of self.

I was searching on line for a similar experience and found your blog post
and the quote.

Namaste

Richard

Thank you, Richard, for taking the time to contact me with your experience.  Although not every meditation can be wonderful, those that are can be so amazing in their spaciousness and peace, and I love your description of ‘the paper thin sense of self’.  To those who are  just starting to practise meditation, and just starting their journey through the chakras, your story is an inspiration.

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A challenge!

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In my last post, I wrote about the importance of right speech.  In line with that post, and thinking more about the way we communicate with ourselves and others, I’d like to share a  challenge.  I recently came across a book by Will Bowen, called ‘A Complaint Free World.  The movement, which was started in 2006, has spread across the world, with people wearing a purple bracelet and switching it to the other wrist each time they complain about something.  The idea is to realise just how often we complain, and try to resist the temptation, keeping our communication clearer and more positive.  When you consider that our thoughts – including the ones we say out loud! – go a long way towards creating our perceptions of the world,  this would seem to be a very practical way of improving things for ourselves, as well as a way of learning not to say such a big ‘no’ to the circumstances of our lives.

It is said that it takes us 21 days to create lasting change, either adopting a new positive habit, or eradicating an old one, and so the challenge the Complaint  Free  World movement sets us is to go 21 days without complaining.  Not an easy task!  And so, why not start trying today?  Yes, even if you have already complained today! As the old saying goes, there’s no time like the present!  Although you can order the purple  bracelets from their website, you could also use your own method of noticing your complaints – using an ordinary bracelet or band, for example.

If you decide to give the challenge a try, be aware that Bowen himself found initially that he had to move his bracelet around 20 times a day!  So don’t  expect to complete the challenge in 21 days, or even close to that!  At first, when we try to become conscious of any bad habit, it can be extremely uncomfortable, and tempting to go back to the way things were.  On the path of change, we need to move through 4 stages:

1.  Unconscious incompetence – we are not even aware of the behaviour, and so  we feel quite comfortable!

2.  Conscious incompetence – we become aware of the behaviour, but are not yet successful in changing it.  This is the worst stage for us to go through!

3.  Conscious competence – we are becoming better at controlling our behaviour, and deliberately substituting something more positive.  In my experience, though, it can be all too easy to slip back to incompetence at this stage.  And then the challenge is to start anew, and not give up.

4.  Unconscious competence – we have fully established the new habit, or eradicated the old one, so we no longer need to be aware of it.

(paraphrased from ‘The Buddha’s Brain’, by Rick Hanson and  Richard Mendius)

If you are ready for the challenge, or indeed if you have already tried it, I’d love to know how you are getting on!  Please leave your comments below.

The power of speech

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throat chakra, communication, yoga, meditation, mantra

The words we use, the language and tone of our voices when we communicate with others is so important. We have all at some time in our lives said something we  later regret, whether saying something to hurt in a moment of anger, or being unable to resist the temptation to indulge in some juicy gossip. And the power of those words to cause harm may be so much more than we thought. They can never be taken back. Once the energy of those words is in the world, their damage is done and may continue for many years.

As Robert Browning writes so presciently in ‘A Lover’s Quarrel’, what we say may not necessarily reflect our true feelings, and yet can still cause untold damage:

Not from the heart beneath –
‘ Twas a bubble born of breath
Neither sneer nor vaunt
Nor reproach nor taunt.
See a word, how it severeth!
Oh, power of life and death
In the tongue, as the Preacher saith!

Some of our speech may be empty of true meaning, as empty as a bubble and disconnected from the truth of our hearts.  Our throat chakra, Vishuddhi, is situated between Anahata, the heart chakra, and Ajna, lying in the brain.  When we are focused and centred in our true selves, our speech will reflect the wisdom of both the head and the heart.  Yoga encourages us to adopt right speech, tasting our words before we speak them, assessing whether they are kind, whether they are true, whether they are necessary.  How much of what we say is completely unnecessary?!  The quality of truthfulness, satya, is one of the five yamas of Raja yoga.  This quality is not only about our speech, but also about living our life honestly and decently, in line with our own spiritual values.

I recently came across a prayer to the Divine Mother, in the excellent book Living the Practice: Collected Writings on the Transformative Potential of Yoga by Swami Radhananda, which begins:

May all my speech and idle talk be mantra 

A mantra is a word or phrase which is repeated in yoga and meditation practice and which connects us to our spirit.  The thought of all our speech being mantra is inspiring.  Could we really elevate our every word to the level of mantra, using our speech to connect us with our spirit, and that of those we are talking to, rather than disconnecting as we so often do in our everyday speech?  When we gossip about others, we are creating the illusion of  ‘them and us’, looking for differences between individuals, and creating separation.  When we speak unkindly, when we criticise others, we are using the power of our speech to disconnect from the person we are talking to, rather than building a connection from our heart to theirs.  By consciously improving the quality of our speech, by connecting what comes out of our mouths with our hearts, our minds and our inner spirit, we  begin to live truthfully and to honour the oneness of ourselves with everybody else.

Changing the way we speak can be so hard. Like any habit, gossip or criticism can take a  long time to weed out.  But perhaps a good way to start is to choose just one aspect you’d like to change, from raising your voice to gossiping about a neighbour  or acquaintance you don’t like.  Once we become conscious of the need for change, of how our behaviour is creating separation, both between ourselves and someone else, and between our actions and our true spirit or motivation, we can continue to take small steps in the right direction.  We will at times get it wrong, and revert back to our old ways,  but we keep on trying, until  it  becomes easier and easier.  Until, one day, you notice that you really are more conscious in your interactions with others, that your speech really is like mantra, and totally aligned with your inner values.

 

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