A few weeks ago, I wrote about a small spider joining me during my meditation (A calm clear mind). I speculated that there may have been some difference in my composure if it had been a larger creature. Well, this morning the test came! I had just settled down in my conservatory at 5.40am, having completed Surya Namaskara and had just started working through Pawanmuktasana 1 when I noticed three long, thick legs sticking out of the gap beneath the cladded wall. I continued my practice but kept looking out of the corner of my eye to see if the legs had moved. They didn’t, for the longest time. They were just there, every time I looked. So, whilst continuing calmly, I decided this needn’t interrupt my practice. Live and let live, he wasn’t bothering me, so why should I try to remove him? Plus, taking a spider outside at that time of day would mean going all the way back through the house – risking waking my family – to get something to catch him with, unlocking the front door, getting some shoes and then trailing out into the garden to find somewhere nice to put him. Plus potential running and even more commotion if he started scurrying out of the container with those long legs on my way through the house!
So, there I was, and there he was. He came out of his little home and had a walk. Not far, just enough to make me move over a bit! As the long legs would have suggested, he was BIG! Really big. But not fast. He walked a few inches – not even in my direction, to be fair – and then stopped. I continued my practice, on to my arms and shoulders by this point, risked closing my eyes, and then peeked again. He was walking back. Back to his original spot, until I could just see his legs again!
At which point, I finished pawanmuktasana and settled in for meditation. I turned my back on the spider so I couldn’t be tempted to check on him, and had a lovely practice, letting go of all the anxieties – it really wasn’t strong enough to call fear, let’s say disquiet. And yes, he was still resting in the exact same spot when I finished at 7am. I hope he had as peaceful a time as me!
Then I rushed on to my day, breakfast, school run, classes, shopping, and now writing before the ironing, school run, swimming lessons – oops, have I missed out lunch again?? I haven’t had time to see if my long-legged friend is still there. I guess he might be joining me again tomorrow!
And the thing about meditation is – there is room for all these distractions and unscheduled things. It doesn’t have to be perfect. Yes, my mind could have taken over – but it didn’t. I was fully aware of how I was feeling – a little wary, assessing how fast /far he was likely to move. I reminded myself that, however big he looked, he was still tiny in comparison to me, and that he certainly wasn’t going to hurt me, even if he did come and sit on me like the other spider did. I experienced how it made me feel to share my space with him, but didn’t let myself spin off and ruin my own practice. Not something that would have been possible in my pre-meditation days. Mindfulness, being present with whatever comes up – that is the heart of meditation. Today might not have been utter bliss from start to finish, but it was fine.